Like many sexual discussions which rarely or never happen in the midst of our most intimate relationships, yet proliferate the airwaves and video content of adult entertainment, most people have an extremely limited language to work with when it comes to orgasm.
Push and Pull – Do you understand the push-pull phenomenon that drives most relationships? Do you even know what side you’re on? Here are some ideas to begin to relate to the pendulum swings and follow your heart to balance in love.
Learn how negative thinking about relationships (be it from culture or old ideas of our own) limit the possibilities of growth and happiness within relationships of all kinds.
Language is the metaphor we use to communicate our deepest feelings. A couple’s sexuality is the most profound vehicle of communication of all. The words we use and our physical language of love define our love experience.
I urge all of my closest friends to explore an entirely different dialogue, one where the spoken word is left outside the door, and the conversation is lead and answered with what some would argue is our true intelligence- the body.
Understanding that the huge amounts of trust, time and loving intention that we invest in our early relationships are actually renewable resources, provides us with the motivation to create new strategies to maintain them.