My Passionate Guy

My very special guy always makes me feel like I am much younger than I am! We talk about pleasing each other with no embarrasment & finally for me….no guilt. What freedom that brings!! His kiss thrills me right down to my toes… every time. And we have know each other for 40 years. I intend to leave this world, when the time comes with a BIG smile.

Diane, Ontario, Canada

Intimate Moment

My boyfriend and I haven’t been sexually intimate in the last two months. Hard to say why. We went on summer vacation for several weeks in June; I toted along my Good Clean Love lubricant and condoms. Nothing happened. We went on a weekend trip to Seattle and I did the same; nothing happened. Part of the “problem” is a difference in sleeping/awake schedules. My boyfriend’s system starts to shut down around 7 PM, mentally and otherwise; by the time 10 PM rolls around, he’s ready for only reading and slumber. I have energy at night, but it takes two to tango. He is often reading in bed when I step into the shower and already asleep once I step out. In the mornings, we are rushed to get out – either to work, or on the weekends, to go work out.

Our lack of sexual intimacy was bothering me, so I brought it up with my boyfriend. Faced with the canvas of a blank conversation, I didn’t know where to start, although he was receptive. “We haven’t been very intimate in the last few months,” I said eventually. He agreed, and said that part of the reason was our schedules, in addition to having been busy with traveling. I said that I wanted to have more intimate moments. He agreed, and then said something interesting: “Just for the record, I think this moment we are having right now is intimate.” We had been having our conversation while lying on our too small couch together – facing each other, his body half-cradling mine. He was looking at me intently, as I was trying to verbalize the thoughts jamming around in my mind. Just lying there next to each other, talking about our intimate life, the air laden with the taste of expectancy, we had created an intimate moment (albeit not sexual) without my realizing it. In my conversations with myself, I had only been focusing on the lack of sexual connection, dismissing other forms of connection. I had not been seeing everything as a whole. The lesson for me is to not overlook the everyday intimacy, the hugs in the kitchen, the real listening, the spooning in bed. The sexual is important as well, but so is the rest of it, and it leads to the other.

Kimberly, California

Guide to Getting it On Winners

LoL

We started out with our normal foreplay and got to business. Everything was going great but then, as things were really heating up, the worst thing happened. A fart. Loud as day and unable to be covered up. We laughed, we laughed so hard we had tears in our eyes. As we were laughing we kept going and it was the most mind blowing sex I’ve ever had. I felt the connection even more with my partner as we were both laughing together. The shaking of our bodies as we giggled our way to orgasms. The best advice I could give is to not shy away from natural things your body does, instead embrace them. Let loose with your partner. Don’t get embarrassed and don’t embarrass your partner. Just laugh.

Nitasha, Pennsylvania

72 years young

Because of my age. I am 72 years old, still vital and in great health and body. Now widowed after 46 years married, I want to know all there is to have great and fulfilling sex. I have a lover and want to keep our togetherness more interesting and provocative. Times a wasting!

Barbie, Arizona